simple question is it a collective responsibility or the woman's fault when they find out theyr pregnant and didn't plan for it?

A pal of mine brought this up a few weeks ago and was like its always a very unfair situation a woman finds  herself especially if she still lives with her parents or guardians!its confusion...should i do away with it...will he accept it or bail out...what if he does..what will my parents,family pals say...church...you know!

And when you finally come to terms with the situation you decide you know what time to tell the world!you do right?but you never anticipate the beef especially if both yo families are known to each other aa!dhuraam if they dont like each other!

  Ok so when mother nature came calling i had no alternative but use the public toilets...y'all know when you are really really "pressed"kuna vile no matter what all yo energies somewhat channeled towards the bladders...aa!you can't think,act normal...all you ant s a permanent relieve!it gets worse when you traveling and honestly i don't blame the lots that can't take it no more and just relieve themselves!

So wen i got in this position i had to just find a way to get myself to get to the public toilets!i had alternative it was either i hold on to the bladder or just save my self the trauma and check into a public toilet!yes to cut the story short unlike all the bad vibe iv had about public toilets?these were actually spotless with water!was accompanied by a pal by the way .

You know after watching Kenya's contestant Sheila Kwamboka get evicted from the Big Brother House last Sunday i couldn't help but wonder if the main reason Africa voted her out was coz of the incident she had with Meryl?

Oh yeah this is hot gossip that i just  cant let go!y'all know about the famous reality show Big Brother Africa right?contestants drawn from different countries in Africa are locked up in a house for 90days and nights....accompanied by gossip,drama,love affairs that mostly are of convenience and of-course booze and lotsa activities the audience is usually in for a treat!and hey its not for free there is the ultimate price!

And so the drama that unfolded between two contestants Kenya's Sheila Kwamboka whose a party animal and a chained smoker who curses like a Kite and Namibia's Meryl,25yr single mother of 3 who has a similar lifestyle as Sheila (though loves men) has vowed to have 6kids by the time she's 30...did i mention she's slept with over 30men?yup!

Last Friday we had an historical moment...Kenya's re-birth..we call it the promulgation of a new constitution that as Kenyans we had waited for a minute!so it happened with pomp and flare

But what we did not anticipate was unwanted negative publicity!by the international media/United Nations,demonstrations!we were supposed to make headlines for all the right reasons for a minute!we had a referendum minus war,we had the promulgation of the new constitution done in style but no! one Al Bashir aka Sudanese President aka the most wanted president showed up and jinxed everything!!

According to a section of the media Al Bashir sneaked in through the  local Wilson Airport and not Kenya's   Jomo Kenyatta  International Airport...he came in amid tight security..stole  our shine and in a few hours sneaked out!just like that!